I have struggled with mental health for my entire life.
For me, it started very young. And like many children, my mental health challenges showed up as behavior problems.
As a child, I was not walking around saying, “I am depressed.” I was acting out. I was hurting. I was overwhelmed. I did not always have the language, support, or tools to understand what was happening inside of me.
That pain eventually led to being hospitalized in a mental hospital three times, several suicide attempts, a lot of self-harm, and being placed on many different mental health medications over the years.
That is a heavy sentence to write.
It is also part of my story.
Fast forward to today, and my mental health is much more manageable. I am grateful for that. I have tools. I have support. I have perspective. I have learned how to live with my mental health challenges in a way that allows me to function, serve, love, work, and thrive.
But I want to be honest about something important: I still struggle.
Healing does not mean that mental health challenges go away. Growth does not mean you never have difficult thoughts, emotions, or seasons again. Thriving does not mean you are magically cured from everything you have been through.
For me, thriving means I have learned how to keep showing up for my life, even when the struggle is still there.
And on top of managing my own mental health, I also have to be a person in today’s world.
That matters because we are living in a very unique time.
Mental health is moving from awareness to action. For years, we have talked about reducing stigma, opening up conversations, and encouraging people to speak honestly about what they are going through. That work still matters.
But awareness alone is no longer enough.
We all know we need to talk about mental health.
Now we have to ask: What are we actually doing about it?
Depression and anxiety remain elevated. Stress and burnout are affecting people across industries, communities, and generations. Loneliness and disconnection are becoming more central mental health topics, especially as technology and AI continue to reshape the way we work, communicate, and relate to one another.
We are more connected digitally than ever, yet many people feel deeply disconnected emotionally.
That is why mental health can no longer be treated as a side conversation, a once-a-year awareness month, or a quick wellness checklist item. It needs to be part of how organizations lead, how teams communicate, and how individuals care for themselves.
This is why I am dedicated to my work as a mental health speaker.
I know what it is like to struggle.
I also know what it is like to thrive.
And because of that, I want to give people tools, hope, and inspiration so they can take meaningful action in their own lives.
Here are three ways you can be more proactive about your mental health, based on my lived experience and my work as a Certified Corporate Wellness Specialist®.
1. Be honest about your self-care
A lot of people say they believe in self-care, but very few pause long enough to ask, “What am I actually doing for my self-care, and how much time am I really spending on it?”
Self-care is not just something that sounds good in theory. It has to become something you practice.
That does not mean your self-care has to be complicated, expensive, or time-consuming. It can be as simple as taking a walk, getting enough sleep, drinking water, setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, journaling, stretching, praying, meditating, going to therapy, or stepping away from your phone.
The key is honesty.
Are you consistently caring for yourself, or are you only trying to recover after you are already burned out?
Are you giving yourself what you need, or are you waiting until your body and mind force you to stop?
Self-care is not selfish. It is maintenance. It is prevention. It is about building the capacity to keep showing up for your life.
2. Reach out to a mental health professional
Even if you do not think you need one, consider reaching out to a mental health professional just to have conversations.
You do not have to wait until you are in crisis.
This is one of the biggest mindset shifts we need to make as a society. Many people still think therapy, counseling, or professional mental health support is only for people who are falling apart. But support can also help you process stress, understand patterns, strengthen relationships, make better decisions, and build emotional resilience.
You can be successful and still need support.
You can be strong and still need support.
You can be functioning and still need support.
Having someone trained to help you think through your emotions, behaviors, and experiences can be life-changing. It gives you a safe space to be honest, reflect, and grow.
For me, support has been an important part of learning how to manage my life. And I encourage people not to wait until things become unbearable before they ask for help.
3. Keep educating yourself about mental health
Mental health is not a one-time topic. It is something we continue to learn about.
Our society is discovering new things every day. The language around mental health is constantly changing. The way we understand trauma, anxiety, depression, neurodiversity, burnout, loneliness, workplace stress, and emotional well-being continues to evolve.
That means we all have a responsibility to keep learning.
When you educate yourself, you become more compassionate toward others and more aware of yourself. You start to recognize signs earlier. You communicate more thoughtfully. You reduce stigma through your behavior, not just your words.
Education also helps organizations create healthier environments. Leaders who understand mental health are better equipped to support their teams, reduce shame, and build cultures where people feel safe enough to be human.
Mental health education is not just for clinicians. It is for parents, employees, managers, teachers, caregivers, executives, meeting planners, and anyone who interacts with other people.
In other words, it is for all of us.
The action starts with you
We are in a time when mental health needs more than awareness.
It needs action.
That action does not have to be dramatic. It can begin with one honest conversation, one appointment, one boundary, one moment of self-care, one training, one new tool, or one decision to stop pretending everything is fine.
I know what it is like to struggle deeply. I know what it is like to feel overwhelmed by your own mind and emotions. But I also know that healing, growth, and thriving are possible.
Your mental health matters.
The people around you matter.
And the more proactive we become, the more hope, connection, and resilience we can create in a world that desperately needs all three.
About Mike Veny
Mike Veny is a globally recognized mental health speaker and Certified Corporate Wellness Specialist® who has made it his mission to transform stigma into strength through rhythm and story.
Known for his electrifying drumming keynotes and raw, real talk, Mike helps workers thrive and organizations create emotionally healthy cultures. His work bridges inclusive excellence, mental health, and professional development—and is known for producing measurable change. He has been booked by NAMI, Microsoft, Johnson & Johnson, and hundreds more.



